Aging and Spirituality: Finding Courage and Resilience
We can find ourselves in new territory where much is unknown as we face challenges and difficulties in illness, in the aging process, and in dying. In the same way the grit inside an oyster transforms into a pearl, we wonder if our fear and frustration can be transformed into something just as beautiful in us.
You are invited to a time of learning, reflection, and self-care.
We will be led by a collaborative, experienced group of spiritual companions of various faith traditions who work in long-term care, hospice, and the community: Teresa Bryant, Miriam Frey, Dale Guenter, Jane Kuepfer, Celia McBride, and Maureen McDonnell.
The context of the gathering will allow time for contemplation, relaxation, and community connections. Join us as we consider and experience together the role of spirituality in finding courage and resilience in our work, in our homes, and within ourselves. Come for one day, two days, or make it a retreat and stay overnight at Grebel.
June 13 and 14, 2019, 10 AM–4:30PM
Cost: $155 for both days (includes lunches), overnight cost extra;
or $85 for just one day (includes lunch)
Conrad Grebel University College
140 Westmount Road North
Waterloo, ON, Canada, N2L 3G6
Learn more about the team leading the retreat.
Teresa Bryant O.A.B., R.P,. is an ordained priest in the Order of Amida Buddha and a registered psychotherapist living in London, Ontario. She holds graduate degrees in Religion and Culture, and Counselling, and certifications in Spiritual Direction, Morita Therapy, Adult Education and Contemplative End-of- Life Care. Teresa specializes in grief counselling and teaches courses in the areas of aging, grief and bereavement, and end-of-life care in both university and community settings. She is currently the Director of Supportive Care at St. Joseph’s Hospice, London, ON.
Dale Guenter is a family physician with a special interest in chronic illness, planning for end of life, and palliative care. He teaches, does research, and administers programs in these areas at McMaster University. He has trained, practiced and mentored in the art of spiritual accompaniment through the model of the Pacific Jubilee program, and seeks to teach and practice medicine with a sensitivity to the stirrings of the soul.
Celia McBride is a multi-disciplinary artist who is committed to contemplative living and Unitive Consciousness. She completed the Pacific Jubilee SoulGuiding program in 2013 and the Pacific Jubilee SoulMentoring program in 2015. Celia provides one-to-one accompaniment, develops and leads healing retreats and provides spiritual care to residents in long-term care. Celia considers spiritual direction to be soul-healing work, where the fullness of our humanity may be seen, touched and nurtured with growing compassion: “Receiving and providing spiritual direction has enabled me to radically accept my human self, which has united me more and more to my Higher Self.” Celia uses the word ‘interspiritual’ to describe her own salad-bar spirituality, which draws from numerous traditions, faiths and practices. “First and foremost, I participate in my own healing,” she says. “This is truly what enables me to help others.”
Maureen McDonnell, D.Min. facilitates the Ministry for Maturing Adults program, at St. Bonaventure’s parish community, in Toronto. The spirit of the program is that we are summoned to fulfil our potential for spiritual growth and integration as persons in a deeper way during the second half of our lives. Maureen enjoys leading retreats in spirituality and aging, offering workshops and accompanying spiritual seekers in their life journey. Formerly she taught at Regis College, Toronto School of Theology with a focus on pastoral ministry. She also was the Director of the Spiritual Direction Program for the formation of spiritual directors and supervisors. She seeks to assist persons in awakening to the beauty of the human journey within the cosmic unfolding of the universe so that we all might act with truth, peace, justice and compassion in the ordinariness of our daily lives.
Miriam Frey, D. Min was formed spiritually in a Mennonite church and began her career in business and finance. She has expanded her spiritual and cultural awareness through mystical experiences at a young age, a three-year service assignment in east Africa, as well as discovering her love of learning. With substantial experience in Jungian dream work and training in the Enneagram, Miriam enjoys companioning spiritual seekers as they discover the complexity of the human soul and find ultimate meaning for their lives.
With a Doctorate in Spiritual Ministry and a certificate from both the Toronto (Ontario) Jubilee program and Associated Mennonite Biblical Seminary (all completed between 1999 and 2003), Miriam brings wisdom and skill to her role as coordinator of the Ontario Jubilee program in Spiritual Direction. She further demonstrates her contemplative leadership as the Canadian Coordinator for Spiritual Directors International, a global learning community committed to peace and justice through the contemplative action of spiritual companionship.
Jane Kuepfer is the Schlegel Specialist in Spirituality and Aging, a joint appointment by the Schlegel-UW Research Institute for Aging and Conrad Grebel University College. She has extensive experience as a spiritual caregiver in long-term care homes and in the community, as a registered psychotherapist, a spiritual director, and an ordained Minister in the Mennonite Church and the United Church of Canada. Jane completed a doctorate in Human Relationships (Spiritual Care and Psychotherapy) at Martin Luther University College with a dissertation focus in the area of Spirituality and Aging. As part of her role, Jane coordinates an annual Spirituality and Aging Seminar, conducts research, and teaches graduate courses in Spirituality and Aging. She enjoys the outdoors in all seasons, colourful quilts, fiddle music, riding tandem bicycle with her husband, and paying attention to people of all ages and stages of life, including their own young-adult children.
The Spirituality and Aging Program
Spirituality and Aging is a program area of the Research Institute for Aging. Its two-fold purpose is to promote and disseminate research in the field of spirituality and aging that will enhance the well-being of older adults; and to be a resource to students, community clergy, chaplains, and caregivers through university classes, public lectures, and workshops.
Learn more about the Spirituality and Aging Program.
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Bill Randall (Fall 2018)
About Bill Randall
Bill Randall, MDiv, EdD, is Professor of Gerontology at St. Thomas University. Prior to entering academic life, he was a minister with the United Church of Canada, serving pastorates in Saskatchewan, Ontario, and New Brunswick. A graduate of Harvard, Princeton Seminary, and the University of Toronto, he is author or co-author of over 60 scholarly publications on topics related to "narrative gerontology", with a special interest in the importance of "narrative care" with older adults. Among his books are: Reading Our Lives: The Poetics of Growing Old (with Elizabeth McKim, Oxford UP, 2008) and The Narrative Complexity of Ordinary Life: Tales from the Coffee Shop (Oxford 2015).
Public lecture: "Aging as a Natural Monastery: Spirituality in Later Life"
Date: Thursday, November,15, 2018
Overview: Join Bill Randall in considering the many respects in which aging is an inherently spiritual process- not religious necessarily, but spiritual (broadly defined). Despite prevailing perceptions of aging as a matter of inevitable decline, the challenges and changes that come with it can be experienced as nature's way of nudging us into the adventure of truly growing old (vs. just getting old)- growing in insight, understanding, and compassion.
Public lecture: "Spirituality, Aging, and Narrative: The Sacred Art of Story-Telling"
Date: Friday, November 16, 2018
Overview: When someone says, "That's the story of my life," what do you understand them to mean? Is their story one of liberation or loss? Is it a tragedy, a comedy, a romance, an adventure? Is it rooted in a larger story, of a people, a community, a family, a faith? In the morning session, we will explore the intersections between spirituality and narrative, and between narrative and aging, focusing on both the unique developmental tasks of later life, and the challenges aging poses to our stories. The afternoon will introduce the sacred art of story-listening and prepare participants to provide narrative care.
Kristine Theurer (Fall 2017)
Public lecture: "The Need for a Spiritual Revolution in Residential Care"
Date: Friday, November 17, 2017
Overview: There's an urgent need for a spiritual revolution in residential care. How can we better engage community in meeting spiritual needs? How do we continue to have meaningful friendships/relationships into old age, and what structures might support that, in our churches, in retirement communities and in long term care? The purpose of this seminar is to engage attendees in an interactive exploration of a new spiritual approach to psychosocial care within residential care (including long-term care homes, assisted living, and retirement homes)
2006 - Dr. Ellen Bouchard Ryan (McMaster University - Professor of Psychiatry & Gerontology
- "Spiritual Care for persons with dementia, Fostering Personhood through communication"
2007 - Nancy Kriseman (Georgia - Geriatric Social Worker)
2008 - Rev. Dr. James Ellor (Baylor University, Texas - Social Work Professor - Editor of Journal of Religion, Spirituality & Aging)
- "Spiritual Assessment"
2009 - Rev. Dr. Peter Barnes (Ottawa/Newfoundland - Pastoral Counsellor Specialist)
- "Palliative Care"
2010 - Rev. George Handzo (Healthcare Chaplaincy Network - Director of Health Services Research & Quality)
- "Spirituality & health care in institutions)
2011 - Dr. Steven Sandage (Bethel Theological Seminary - Psychologist)
2012 - Dr. Susan and Rev. John McFadden (Wisconsin - Professor of Psychology, and Chaplain
- "Spirituality, Friendship, and Community in Late Life"
2014 - Dr. Ken Pargament (Bowling Green University - Professor of Psychology)
- "Spiritual Transformation, Sacred Moments in Healing and Relationships"
2015 - Dr. Harvey Max Chochinov (University of Manitoba - Director of Manitoba Palliative Care Research Unit)
- "Dignity in End-of-Life Care"
2017 - Kristine Theurer (Java Group Programs - Founder and President)
- "The Need for a Spiritual Revolution in Residential Care"
2018 - Dr. Bill Randall (St. Thomas University - Professor of Gerontology)
- "Aging as a Natural Monastery: Spirituality in Later Life"
- "Spirituality, Aging, and Narrative: The Sacred Art of Story-Telling"